Where to find a girl/boy friends : Suggestions and tips where to find a friends.

So you have trouble finding anyone that you would like to ask for a friendship. Luckily you are here now! Here the some tips for You.

-->Don't approach only raving beauties! Don't try to meet only the A women go after the B's too. Average women with average looks and average figures are easier to meet, often much nicer people and generally not as demanding. same rule apply for boys also.

-->Very Inexpensive but Very Effective! One Red Rose! It's only a couple of bucks but it implies a relationship of more than friends. Good policy is to bring a fresh flower or two every third or fourth meeting. so always celebrate "Rose Day" in your college. Don't be shy yaar...

-->Giving him/her card, chocolate, gift on special occasion or in birthday etc. Gift always play importance role in build up long and healthy relationship. So don't forget His/Her birth date.

-->How To Ask a Woman The Right Questions Without Making Her Feel Like She is Being Interrogated! Ask questions but not in quick succession. women will feel they are being interviewed. Instead a very good way to obtain the information you need is to ask a question and then follow it up with some additional conversation on that topic. You want to weave your questions into the conversation so she won't feel as if she is being interrogated..

-->DON'T BE SHY.

-->Take a course of something you like and scan the people there, even if you don't happen to find someone your time was not wasted.

-->If you can begin with the exchange of warm relaxed smiles, you have a lot going for you.

-->All kinds of co-ed sports programs are great places to meet new people.

-->What is the Best Time of Day for Meeting : In the morning or the evening is the best time for meeting and also risk free.

First Meeting: -Tips and hints how to behave on your first meeting.
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Asking: -How and when to ask someone for a first meeting.

It is important that you are noticed as some one interesting or special standing out from the croud. You can do this by:

Carrying something with you that helps to start conversations, like your dog or a fresh loaf of bread...depending on the situation you live in. You could also be involved in something interesting, like be involved in your local poem reading club or something else that is interesting and you like it. It has to be something you really like though, because otherwise your plan will backfire. Say you start going out with her/him and on your birthday s/he decides to surprise you with to tickets to the "Opera of Poems", now that sure would make day.


Eye contact is important. If you are watching a person that interests you and notice it and look back, keep on looking at them for about 4 seconds and then look away. Don't stare, that makes you look weird.

Show that you are interested in him/her, but don't beg or whine for attention.

Bodylanguage: Look like your having a good time and be happy where ever you are.People do not approache you if you look mad and miserable.

Make sure your nails are trimmed.

Conversations: Ask your crush questions that can't be answered with a yes or a no. Open-ended interest inquiries is a must. Don't talk about how you programmed your computer to make the coffee for you in the morning or how you realized that Revlons powder foundation is way more efficient than Cover Girls liquid foundation, but ask questions that include the lucky Gentlemans/lady's opinion and perception. If you both like the same music artist you might reply: "I wonder why Celine Dion hasn't released a new album yet? You don't always have to agree, but be polite and courteous if you offer another rationale.


Read a newspaper or watch a news program that day so you'll have something to talk about and sound as if you know what's happening in the world. Nothing is worse for a woman than to meet a pompous, self-important bore who couldn't care less about anything that's happening in the world but himself and how it all affects him. It is shown that youngster are watching television but they are never watch NEWS...

--> Never say 'shut up.' 'stupid' unless absolutely necessary

--> Don't look for a fight. Debate topics, don't argue them.

--> Try avoiding going to the movies on your date. Do something different where you can actually talk with each other. A couple of good examples include:

Bike riding
Museums
Laser tag
The zoo
Garden
Caves
Coffee Shops
beach
mountains
Art Galleries
Botanic Gardens
Burger King (ones with indoor/outdoor play areas)
Bus Stops, Platform (great place Meeting)
City Parks (National Park etc)
In Lectures
College Libraries
Lakes
Picnics
Seminars
Shopping Mall and Shopping Centers
Sunsets/Sunrises
Theater
Zoos

-->Gift Item List ;
Send E-card regularly
Candy
Candles (scented)
Candle Holders
Cards (greeting)
Flowers (one rose, bouquet etc...)
perfume
Audio cassettes
chocolate
Antique Article or coin.

and lastly Practice : Why is it Important To Practice? To make friends is like playing a sport or a musical instrument the more you practice the better you get. always remember "Practice makes a man perfect"

Best of Luck From "FriendsIndia"
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